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A match of Behr 3A35-4 Gentility is a soft, low-chroma gray with a cool lavender-mauve cast. It reads as restrained rather than bright, with medium depth that can shift slightly toward gray or toward the mauve side depending on sheen, substrate, and lighting.

MyPerfectColor custom spray paint matched to the selected brand color can be used on vents, switch covers, speaker grilles, brackets, shelf hardware, railings, shutters, mailbox parts, PVC trim pieces, frames, and small fixture components. It is a practical choice when you need removable or small spray-painted parts to coordinate with an existing color reference without introducing a stronger accent.

Because the color is muted and medium in depth, it often covers more evenly than a vivid color, but final results still depend on the surface beneath it. Smooth gloss, rough texture, and darker substrates can change how the gray-lavender note appears, and finish differences may make the color read lighter or deeper after drying. On exterior parts, the subdued chroma generally behaves more calmly than a saturated color, but film build and surface preparation still matter for even appearance.

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About BEHR Paint

BEHR is a dynamic company that actively embraces quality and innovation to bring the paint industry the very best products and services. Their bold entrepreneurial spirit and commitment to integrity and to doing the right thing has been the cornerstone of their success since 1947. BEHR enjoys great brand presence and a reputation for unparalleled quality, innovation, value and performance. People know and love the BEHR brand.

Matching BEHR Paint Colors

MyPerfectColor is able match all of the BEHR paint colors so you can find and enjoy the colors you love. MyPerfectColor uses its expert capabilities to recreate the original BEHR color by matching the original BEHR color books and swatches. MyPerfectColor is not using BEHR paint.

The colors shown on this website are computer video simulations of the BEHR Color and may not match BEHR Color standards. Refer to BEHR Publications to obtain the accurate color. Please know that MyPerfectColor is matching the original BEHR color. If you intend to touch up paint that has been on your walls for years, know that your color has undoubtedly changed from the original due to exposure to light and age and the new paint may not match. You will achieve best results by re-coating the entire surface.

If you need more assistance, please feel free to contact us and one of our expert staff would be happy to help.

Frequently Asked Questions About Match of Behr™ 3A35-4 Gentility *

Do I need primer before applying MyPerfectColor's match of Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?

Whether primer is needed depends on the substrate, its condition, and the paint format you order. A primer is not always required, but it generally does not hurt and can improve adhesion and the final uniformity of MyPerfectColor custom paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility.

Check the prep guidance for the exact product and surface before ordering or spraying. If the item is glossy, porous, damaged, or previously coated with an unknown finish, primer is more likely to help.

Will MyPerfectColor's match of Behr 3A35-4 Gentility adhere to plastic and other low-energy surfaces?

Plastics vary widely, so adhesion can differ by material and surface condition. MyPerfectColor spray paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility works well on many plastics, but testing on the actual part is the safest way to confirm performance before committing to the whole job.

If you want extra adhesion help, use the MyPerfectColor primer made for this purpose before topcoating. Clean the surface well first, and do a small test area whenever the plastic type is unknown or especially smooth.

Can I use MyPerfectColor spray paint in Behr 3A35-4 Gentility for switch covers, vents, or hardware?

Yes. MyPerfectColor custom spray paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility is a practical option for small parts such as switch covers, vents, speaker grilles, knobs, brackets, trim pieces, and similar items where a smooth sprayed finish is useful.

For these parts, remove loose contamination, use appropriate prep for the material, and apply light coats so details do not fill in or texture does not build up unevenly.

What spray technique should I use for a smooth finish with Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?

Use light, even coats of MyPerfectColor spray paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility. Keep the can moving, maintain a consistent distance, and overlap passes slightly so the color builds evenly.

Avoid heavy wet passes, which can cause runs, uneven sheen, or a muddy-looking build. Several thin coats usually give better control than trying to cover in one pass, especially on edges and detailed parts.

How should I confirm that Behr 3A35-4 Gentility is the right color before ordering MyPerfectColor paint?

Confirm Behr 3A35-4 Gentility from a physical swatch, an approved sample, or a known existing color reference rather than relying on a screen alone. Displayed color can shift with lighting and device settings, which can lead to ordering the wrong match.

MyPerfectColor makes its own paint matched to the selected Behr color reference, so verifying the target color first is the best way to reduce ordering risk. If the item must coordinate with an existing painted surface, make sure the reference you choose is the one you actually want matched.

How quickly will I receive my paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?
All paint is custom-made to order. While most orders ship within 48 hours, the lead-time for paint made to match Behr 3A35-4 Gentility depends on the type of paint needed. Interior and exterior house paints usually ship within 1 to 3 business days, while custom spray paint typically takes 3-5 business days to ship. The transit time depends on your location and the shipping method you choose. If your need is immediate, select Expedited Production during checkout. Most expedited production orders ship within 24 hours on business days. Please contact MyPerfectColor if you are concerned about a specific deadline. We do our best to make sure you get your paint on time. Learn more about paint lead times at MyPerfectColor.
What are the RGB, HEX and LRV values for Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?
The RGB values for Behr 3A35-4 Gentility are 173, 166, 178 and the HEX code is #ADA6B2. The LRV for Behr 3A35-4 Gentility is 39.18. The LRV stands for Light Reflectance Value and measures the percentage of light that a color reflects. Learn more about Light Reflectance Values and using RGB and Hex codes for paint.
What paint type is used to make spray paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility? And how many spray cans do I need?

MyPerfectColor uses an acrylic enamel which is a fast-drying durable coating suitable for interior or exterior use. MyPerfectColor custom spray paint matched to Behr 3A35-4 Gentility enables you to conveniently achieve a professional spray-smooth finish in any color in any sheen. It sticks well to most surfaces including metal, plastics, powder-coatings, cabinets and primed or previously painted wood.

The MyPerfectColor 11oz spray will cover about 20 square feet per coat. Keep in mind that it is difficult to gauge spray paint need as the coverage is highly dependent on how it is applied. Learn more about how spray paint works at MyPerfectColor.

What is the Hue Angle and Chroma for Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?
The Hue Angle for Behr 3A35-4 Gentility is 312.18 and the chroma is 7.46. The Hue Angle represents the position of a color's hue around a color wheel. The Chromacity represents the intensity of a hue. Learn more about browsing colors by hue.
Does Behr paint color Behr 3A35-4 Gentility need primer?
MyPerfectColor doesn't sell Behr paint, but it does match the Behr 3A35-4 Gentility and all the other Behr colors in a wide variety of paint types. The need for primer depends on the specific paint and the substrate being painted. The top quality paints these days tend to be self-priming over most surfaces, while paint at the mid to lower grade quality levels will need a separate primer. Most special situations such as bleeding type woods or difficult to adhere surfaces like plastic will often need a specialty primer. Contact MyPerfectColor support if you have specific questions about the best paint to use for your project and whether you need a primer.
How can MyPerfectColor match the Behr 3A35-4 Gentility?

MyPerfectColor has an original sample of the Behr 3A35-4 Gentility in its color archive. This enables us to make paint and verify that it matches the original.

Please note that if your material is not new then the paint may not work for touch up as your material has aged and is likely different than it was when new. Learn more about our color matching accuracy. If you need a touch up application, send us a part and we can create a touch up solution precisely matching the current color and sheen of your specific materials.

Learn more about our color matching service.

How do I convert Behr 3A35-4 Gentility to a different color from another paint company?

While we can provide Behr 3A35-4 Gentility in paint, we don't provide any crossover information. We've found that every paint company offers its own unique selection of colors and rarely does a color have an exact equivalent in another brand.

However, under the color image on a color page there is a link that says "Explore Colors". Clicking this link displays colors with similar values and you can look for any colors from the brand you want.

Keep in mind that this just shows similar colors based on the color values we have stored in our database. It doesn't mean it is the same or give any approximation about how close the color is. You can play around with the Hue, Lightness and Chroma sliders to expand the selection.